I should start drawing a line, to differentiate
People who can help me when I need them or when I am in trouble.
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People who only need me to do things for them.
I am getting a bit sick of this, or rather I am feeling really tired thinking of who are those that are my true friends. There are small things that people do here and there that can actually affect me a lot but seems like they don't really notice it. Simply, they take me for granted. Those who actually read my blog will notice that i have a lot of post talking about friendship, that is simply because I cherish the friends around me alot. I am easily provoked by their actions at times because they are simply too insensitive. Imagine me doing those actions? They might not feel it, cause they are so insensitive.
I need friends that don't mind helping me doing things. Sometimes, I will actually need to beg people before they agree to help me on certain stuff. Next time, I should just hesistate more when they approach me for help.
Today I saw a bag on ebay that I wanted so much, but the thing is that the bag have to be self-collected and I am reluctant to do it. I immediately ask jolene to help me to buy and collect the bag. Jolene without asking too much, agreed! WOOHOOOOOO!!! ONZ LA JOLENE! HAHA! Send me the list of things you want from australia, I sure get all for you, provided if I can!
Anyway, was thinking about me having too little friends yesterday. After some deep and enlightening thoughts, I realise is because I am very picky on my friends choice. Maybe 2/10 people i know can qualify. In addition, the people who i choose to hang out with, should be people I can feel easy with and also be myself.(crazily, bitchy and gossipy!)
Monday, May 25, 2009
Monday, May 18, 2009
The another birthday post!
HAPPY 21ST BIRTHDAY JIESHENG!!
Haha! I bet you will read this soon. You should also feel honour to have your name on my blog!

Birthday boy
Went to his birthday chalet last Saturday at the hometeam NS chalet. Seriously, I advise
anyone not to have their chalet there. That place is super inconvenient and also looks old. There are many other more chalet that can be better than that. I went because he is one of the people I am better with including jeremy and weiwei.

The VJ idiot
But anyway, I didn't enjoy the time I was there. Not because of the host(was quite hospitable at times), rather the people I went with. Most of them are people I really cannot clique with. It's also not their fault, it is just the way I am. I can't clique with majority of the people. It is either I like them, or the other way. I am happy with the way I am definitely. People should change their way to suit me and my liking, not me doing it, cause I don't really give a damn. =) I think. Haha!

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Han Quan
Haha! I bet you will read this soon. You should also feel honour to have your name on my blog!

Birthday boy
Went to his birthday chalet last Saturday at the hometeam NS chalet. Seriously, I advise
anyone not to have their chalet there. That place is super inconvenient and also looks old. There are many other more chalet that can be better than that. I went because he is one of the people I am better with including jeremy and weiwei.

The VJ idiot
But anyway, I didn't enjoy the time I was there. Not because of the host(was quite hospitable at times), rather the people I went with. Most of them are people I really cannot clique with. It's also not their fault, it is just the way I am. I can't clique with majority of the people. It is either I like them, or the other way. I am happy with the way I am definitely. People should change their way to suit me and my liking, not me doing it, cause I don't really give a damn. =) I think. Haha!

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Han Quan
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Vaja
Monday, May 11, 2009
We got the whole world in our hand

We got the whole world in our hand.
We got the whole world in our hand.
My cousin was suddenly singing this song yesterday after we finish dinner. I also started singing along.
I then pause to ask, "Which commercial it belongs to?"
He then replied, "Cold Storage la! Stupid!"
Anyway I thought this simple song, with it's repetitious melody does have it's powerful meaning. Mutiple ones that one can infer from.
Enjoy the time you have while you can. Try to make every moment significant, cause there are just so much things around you that you can easily achieve it. But, there is still limit to all these. Don't push it to a point that you are actually degrading yourself. Enjoying yourself doesn't come with making yourself cheap. Everybody should learn how to protect themselves more, cause most people forget their self while they are enjoying.
"We got the whole world in our hand."
Yeah, we seriously does have the whole world to ourselves. So much things, and there is why we must learn how to priortise our life. Sometimes we just need to sit down and do some self reflection. Sometimes, we just need to stay with the ones truly important to you. But people often neglect that, thus people have to come out with days like mother's day, father's day. So that we can spend our time with them. Many people always put money as their priorty, but what they actually fail to notice is that, money is something you can earn back anytime, not the people you love.
Everyone are just so busy with their own life, busy enjoying their life in their own ways, and somehow neglecting whether others around them like it or not. Many of us are living in such self-happy-enough-already ways. Wake up!
I am someone who love myself a lot, but often putting people I love on top of me.
Han Quan
Monday, May 4, 2009
Wooohooo!
I want nobody, nobody, nobody but you!
Wooohooooo! Last weekend have been quite exciting and crazy for me. Labour day is a good day to relax!
On Thursday night, we went to Vivi's usual hangout night place. The night before, Me and Jolene were like begging her to bring us out cause we were really super bored. We just need a place to chill and also to get crazy! I thought I were quite crazy throughout the night! Let's go again this Friday!

On Friday, we went out to walk again. Intial plans was to go get some new clothes and shorts for my closet. But I end up getting none, cause I thought I should save up. We went to the new mall, Iluma and there is seriously nothing there! We also catch a horror yet meaningless movie 'House'. Ultimate lousy movie! Haha.
Saturday was suppose to be a nothing much to do day for me. But end up, Yuheng suddenly called when I was having my dinner and asked to go ECP for supper. Super random! But it was fun. We even went to geylang for soya milk and you tiao!
Yesterday, met my army friends for singing after so long. I have not sing for so long too! James was still complaining after that that we went home so early! Haha. Let's meet again next time!
Han Quan
Wooohooooo! Last weekend have been quite exciting and crazy for me. Labour day is a good day to relax!
On Thursday night, we went to Vivi's usual hangout night place. The night before, Me and Jolene were like begging her to bring us out cause we were really super bored. We just need a place to chill and also to get crazy! I thought I were quite crazy throughout the night! Let's go again this Friday!

I like this so much!!!!!!!
On Friday, we went out to walk again. Intial plans was to go get some new clothes and shorts for my closet. But I end up getting none, cause I thought I should save up. We went to the new mall, Iluma and there is seriously nothing there! We also catch a horror yet meaningless movie 'House'. Ultimate lousy movie! Haha.
Saturday was suppose to be a nothing much to do day for me. But end up, Yuheng suddenly called when I was having my dinner and asked to go ECP for supper. Super random! But it was fun. We even went to geylang for soya milk and you tiao!
Yesterday, met my army friends for singing after so long. I have not sing for so long too! James was still complaining after that that we went home so early! Haha. Let's meet again next time!
Han Quan
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