Unexplainable

This world is just so strange.
Or should i say is the people that is causing it.
Human just works in a unexplainable manner.
The mind just do things in a opposite manner.

Why do we take things for granted?

I guess people seldom ask themselves whether they take things around them for granted. Most of the time they actually do. Most of the people treat aquaintances better than people that are closer to them. This is because they expect people closer to them to understand them better, but they themselves dont really understand how the other party is feeling. Thus they ususally neglects their feelings and have high expectations on them. They think that it is right for them to do that, but in real, they are being damm selfish.

We usually tend to be in our best condition when with aquaintances, but tend to be sloppier when with their close one. This is due to them being more comfortable with the people closer to them. It can be good in one way, but to look at it much deeper, it is another case of people taking things for granted.

I do have this problem, at least i realise it. Time for many people to wake up from their own world and start thinking about how other people feels. Dont set different standards.

hanquan